Transgressive Taboos and Why We Love Them #AtoZChallenge
Apr23

Transgressive Taboos and Why We Love Them #AtoZChallenge

Erotica is transgressive by nature.  Someone smarter than me said “Simply discussing female pleasure is an act of rebellion.”  I don’t remember who.  Probably Camille Paglia or Naomi Wolf or some other icon of things I only barely begin to understand.  But what I do understand is that while pleasure and sex may be transgressive in some circles, in many it’s not.  BDSM has even gone through a normalizing over...

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J is for Jumping in….#AtoZchallenge
Apr11

J is for Jumping in….#AtoZchallenge

I guess one of the most amazing things about erotica is there’s no right way to get into it (although, personally I’d argue that 50 Shades of Gray is the wrong way, but others think it’s perfectly good, so that’s all right).  You can just jump right in. So, I thought today I’d share my top erotica books, and you can too, in the comments. To make it fair though, I’ve not chosen the team members of...

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B is for ‘Boy he/she is hot!’ #atozchallenge
Apr02

B is for ‘Boy he/she is hot!’ #atozchallenge

You can’t really get very far in erotica without talking about attraction.  So, I thought for my inaugural A-Z post, I’d talk about attraction.  Or ‘Boy he’s/she’s hot!’ Hotness on a scale Part of the reason we, as a group, think it’s a great idea each to blog is we’ve got a different idea of what we’re turned on by.  Me, it’s eyes, and hands.  Expressive eyes, and just as...

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